tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post2276978786637263378..comments2023-11-02T08:16:33.716-04:00Comments on What You're Not Expecting When You're Trying to Expect: Overheard...Leslie Lainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07978669963745464690noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-63515343904278741112009-02-05T06:11:00.000-05:002009-02-05T06:11:00.000-05:00It's mad how much people take for granted. But yo...It's mad how much people take for granted. But you know what? I was one of those people before we started ttc. I really thought you just have unprotected sex and you make a baby. As easy as that. How naive was i?Jane Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14515914204369553638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-2014611723037240012009-02-04T20:17:00.000-05:002009-02-04T20:17:00.000-05:00Stupid insensitive people!Stupid insensitive people!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-89877175204826496232009-02-04T17:44:00.000-05:002009-02-04T17:44:00.000-05:00Thinking of you. I found your blog through a few ...Thinking of you. I found your blog through a few others I read. My husband and I have tried 2 rounds of Invitro. Both were unsuccessful! We are gearing up to try our frozen embryos in the next few months and praying that it will result in a BFP! Infertility is such a hard road to travel. I know all to well...Still travelling- hoping to reach the end soon!The Coach's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061486602815228319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-87610008993439697382009-02-04T15:20:00.000-05:002009-02-04T15:20:00.000-05:00Conversatinos like these drive me nuts. What's ir...Conversatinos like these drive me nuts. What's ironic is I used to make similar remarks myself. "I think we want to have two or four kids" or "I'd like my kids spaced this many years apart" or "I plan to have had at least one child before I turn thirty." I wasn't a bad person then, just completely ignorant and naive. In one way I am jealous of people who say things like what you posted. But in another way I feel sorry for them too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-25735905630200665332009-02-04T13:21:00.000-05:002009-02-04T13:21:00.000-05:00I am always amazed by the conversations I overhear...I am always amazed by the conversations I overhear. People are so sympathetic to our IF situation, but I really don't think they understand that it is devestating to us. They don't realize that it actually becomes a way of life. They don't understand how completely blessed they are to be able to have sex just a few times and..... BOOM ...they made a baby! <BR/><BR/>As for the octuplets.... I have been in complete shock over all of that. 1 woman + 6 pregnancies + 14 children = a very irresponsible fertility doctor!!!<BR/><BR/>Good luck at the therapist tomorrow. It will be good to just let it all out and maybe he/she will have some wonderful advise for you! Still praying!!!Emma's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08572515341393915254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-31436235383930482912009-02-04T09:56:00.000-05:002009-02-04T09:56:00.000-05:00I really couldn't stand to hear glib comments abou...I really couldn't stand to hear glib comments about family planning before any of the IF hit, and now it's intolerable for sure.Pennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02864909952004392637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-18837427765357512462009-02-04T08:51:00.000-05:002009-02-04T08:51:00.000-05:00One of my fertile friends has been pregnant in 04,...One of my fertile friends has been pregnant in 04, had the baby in 05. Pregnant in 06, had the baby in 06 (this one didn't make it). Pregnant in 07, had the baby in 08. Now she's asking her husband for another one - on FB! Sometimes I just shake my head and wonder what it would like to be that fertile, where you don't have to plan your entire life around TTC.<BR/><BR/>Good luck Thursday! I think the apt is going to be great.<BR/><BR/>~~HUGS~~I Believe in Miracleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07062124038472752680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-2900380883729608092009-02-04T08:07:00.000-05:002009-02-04T08:07:00.000-05:00I was stuck for an hour in the hairdressers on Sat...I was stuck for an hour in the hairdressers on Saturday first treated to the woman to my left banging on about her pregnancy, nursery, due date etc then just as she left a guy to my right announced that his girlfriend was pregnant and "they were amazed at how quick it was". I might wear ear plugs on a permanent basis ...Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336643483655255680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-17272959164017609212009-02-03T21:32:00.000-05:002009-02-03T21:32:00.000-05:00Some people, no? Hang in there.Some people, no? Hang in there.Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15886919296591229688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-59942696465515985202009-02-03T20:07:00.000-05:002009-02-03T20:07:00.000-05:00Ack. I hate overheard conversations.Ack. I hate overheard conversations.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15844319222032025685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-40350109705261438872009-02-03T19:28:00.000-05:002009-02-03T19:28:00.000-05:00I hear you on the octuplets. Yuck. Glad you have a...I hear you on the octuplets. Yuck. <BR/><BR/>Glad you have an appt. Thursday. It's just too much. Hugs.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06835868086400111345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135874833991283867.post-66713342548267462702009-02-03T19:24:00.000-05:002009-02-03T19:24:00.000-05:00I hear you completely on all three, Leslie. I'm be...I hear you completely on all three, Leslie. I'm beginning to feel like I can't relate to anyone who isn't infertile (good thing i just joined a support group!)<BR/><BR/>moMohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671855540466269330noreply@blogger.com